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May 29, 2003

Welcome to the Fulfillment@Work Newsletter
Published by Joel Garfinkle, Dream Job Coaching
ISSN: 1533-3906


1. Choosing The Best Career
2. What my clients say
3. Website LINK EXCHANGE program!

Feature Article

Choosing the Best Career

Centuries ago, one apprenticed at an early age to learn from a master craftsman experienced in a particular field. It took years, often decades before one was considered even moderately skilled. Michelangelo was apprenticed at age 13. But what if he had hated drawing and learned it only because it was his duty, his job?

Each of us is capable of learning a skill given enough time, one which we can repeat as needed. But does the work tempt you, lure you to return in the small hours of the night? Are you drawn to it like a moth to the flame, enticed by what could be? Michelangelo surely was, for to infuse paint with the raw power to inspire and awe mankind for centuries to come did not come because he learned the basic skills of wielding a paintbrush.

The point here is not necessarily to ignore skills you may have developed but to set them aside for the moment and try to recognize where your heart wants to lead you. Don't change jobs simply because you're good at some skill. Skills are what the past has created. They are merely ways to get from point A to point B. When you find that work which you truly love, you will discover the gifts hidden within you.

After working with 100's of clients from a variety of countries, I've seen that skills by themselves won't make you happy. Actually, it's the one thing that can keep a person blocked from what they love because skills protect you from knowing what you would want and love to do.

My recommendation here is to take some time to examine what your heart desires. If you suddenly lost the ability to perform the skills you currently perform or take pride in, what else would you do? Whether that is sailing, raising dogs, creating a new recipe or painting a picture, listen for the tiny whispered messages that your heart reveals. This is where your soul resides.

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Quotes of the week

"Success on any major scale requires you to accept the final analysis, the one quality that all successful people the ability to take on responsibility."
~ Michael Korda

"A wise person learns by the experience of others. An ordinary person learns by his own experience. A fool learns by nobody's experience."
~ Vern McLellan

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Coaching Client - Words Of Wisdom

Unearthing and airing everybody's resistances was very helpful to the group as a whole to reaffirm everybody has the same issues and that support is out there for the asking.
~ Coaching Client #

How easy it is for you to see the struggle between confidence and self doubt within someone like myself. I need to strike a balance between the two and try not to allow either one take over. All I have known is the corporate world therefore it would make sense that I would question doing something outside of this world. The seed got awakened and now has permission to grow.
~ Coaching Client #2

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